Polly & Dwayne

Should I fill out the RSVP?
– If you are attending the wedding, you must fill out the RSVP. If we do not receive an RSVP two weeks before the wedding, we will assume you are not coming. Please fill out the RSVP per person. Parents, please fill out an RSVP for children. If you have trouble filling out the RSVP, you can always ask Polly and Dwayne for help. 

May I bring a guest?
No, unfortunately, we have a limit on the number of guests we can invite, so it's not possible to bring an extra person.

Can I bring my children?
– Yes, as long as your children are also on the invitation. We have taken children into account in the day's schedule, and there are facilities at the venue for feeding or retreating with a younger child. It is up to the parents themselves to decide if they feel comfortable bringing their child. We do expect parents to supervise their own children. Parents may RSVP separately for children.

Can I bring my dog/cat/horse/pet?
– No, please leave them at home. For the day guests, there will be a moment before dinner when you can quickly walk the dog at home. 

I don't understand the dress code / I don't know what to wear.
- On our website, you'll find a comprehensive guide to the dress code. If you're unsure or have any questions, feel free to send a message to Polly.

Can I stay overnight at Aldenghoor Castle?
- The rooms at Aldenghoor are reserved for the bridal party. For those interested, it is possible to book accommodation nearby. We have created a page on the website with more information for this purpose. 

Where can I park?
- Castle Aldengehoor has its own parking spaces. If these are full, you can park at Trefcentrum Aldenghoor. If that is also full, we are fortunate to be located in Haelen and not Amsterdam; a spot can surely be found nearby.

Is there an open bar?
- Except for strong liquor.

I'm chronically late, what time do I really need to be there?
- For the day guests, you are welcome from 1:30 PM, but the ceremony will genuinely start at 2:00 PM! Evening guests can arrive from 8:00 PM; if you don't want to miss the first dance, it's advisable to be there before 9:00 PM.

Who should I contact if there's a problem on the day itself?
– Vera Haans of Kasteel Aldenghoor can be reached via +31 475 20 3247. During the party, you can also ask the witness, Pasquinel, Sophie, Caitlin, Camiel, or Sonny.